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He cheats on me. Is it my fault?

My fiancee and I have been together for 2 years. We have 1 child together, one on the way and I have two other children from a previous relationship. He is a wonderful father to all. The problem is he cheats on me and has done so two times that I know of. There is a possibility that he may have impregnated one of the women. He denies having unprotected sex. He blames it on me saying that I push him away because I argue and disagree with him most of the time. Both of these incidents have occurred during my pregnancies. I do not feel that this is my fault. Is it his own personal issue and is he using me as an excuse? We were supposed to get married this month but have called it off for now. I'm confused, on one hand I want him to move out of my house because he has disrespected me but on the other he is a great father and provider. What should I do?

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