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I've never posted here before but I feel it's time to try and find information on my mother's health problems. I am 34 yrs old and for as long as I can remember my mother has been sick...from what exactly I'm not sure! When I was younger I remember her always taking a lot of pills. she was on the psychiatric ward for depression/nervous breakdown (once or twice). As I got older she was always visiting doctors and getting tests done...she always seemed to think she had every disease (from reading medical books)...but nothing was ever found! She always exhibited signs of low self-esteem and confidence (always getting me and my sisters to call places for information for her, ordering things, never liked to call herself...has gotten over this mostly...but still asks for me to call some place when she doesn't want to!) As I get older I see a woman who has a food addiction (she says this), spends excessively at times, depressed, extreme irritability (especially if one of us has a different point of view than hers), or if she isn't getting her own way...no one (not even my father) can get mad with her or her behavior because she gives us too much grief. Physically, always totally exhausted, body pain, etc...says is related to chronic fatigue syndrome/fibromyalgia that she has. She has been like this our whole lives...we always have to walk on eggshells around her. ...don't get me wrong...she can be the sweetest, most generous person in the world...but she never seems happy (for very long anyway, and it's getting worse). She says it's because she is so sick...she can't have a life...because she is too tired/or in pain! We want to help but because of the long history of acting this way I'm not sure if it is actually a physical thing...she has left more doctors because they in one way or other have told her that it's in her head! She has had physical symptoms but no sign of disease...I really don't know how to help...it is very hard to be supportive everyday with a person who has always complained about being sick...who's whole life revolves around how sick she feels!