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What Does he Have to Pay? And What Not?

My boyfriend and I have been together for over half a year now, in a long distance relationship. We live it pretty well, considering the fact that we see each other only twice a month. The feelings are there, strong, stable and we are ok with the situation. He seems like the perfect boyfriend. I'd say he actually is... except for when it comes to money.

I know we are both students at university and neither of us two has his own job but I have to pay for my own flight tickets (doing baby sittings etc) and all the stuff that involves the relationship.  My parents don't want to pay any of that.

Now that I'm going to visit him, he tells me that the residence he lives in makes the visitors pay 20€/night to stay there. He has not even suggested to pay half of it. I don't really know what to think or what to do. Is it just that he hasn't even thought about the possibility of us paying it together? I find it a very ugly token gesture...

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